one way of spending my free time either than Facebooking, watching videos, reading news and articles, i also like to do Yahoo!Answers. you guys do know what Yahoo!Answers is right? no? Yahoo!Answers is where people all over the globe ask questions regarding anything and get their feedback/answer/comment/suggestion/opinion instantly from other Yahoo users who are also in Yahoo!Answers. i'm in Yahoo!Answers from time to time but recently i've been in Yahoo!Answers like 5 days in a row. i don't know, for some reason helping other people with their problems, giving them my opinion, my thoughts and my suggestion, helps me forget my own problems. sometimes after hearing all their problems makes me think,"Ahhh.... i guess i'm not the only one who has that problem." yea, kinda like that.
i think what kinda took me of guard are the questions itself. you would be surprised and shocked hearing some of the problems that these people are having and the only think i could think of is,"what the hell is wrong with you people?". seriously, you all should hear it. husband cheating on his wife with his wife's sister, the wife cheating on her husband with her husband's best friend, a guy wants to dump his gf because she's not good in bed, girl wants to dump her bf because his penis is small, a 11 year old girl who asked on how to be good in bed for his 18 year old bf, a husband who cheated on his wife with his ex-wife, wife cheating on her husband with her son's friend, a 22 years old man dating a 45 years old woman because she's rich, guy had a one night stand and now that girl is pregnant and doesn't know how to tell the wife, guy who has a crush on his own mom, and sooooooooooo many more. that is just one category. if we move to the Spirituality section, that is another different level. but let's just focus on the Family & Relationship section shall we?
i admit, there are some problems that is quite innocent like "how can i get her to notice me?" or "do you think he likes me?" or "how can i get over him?" or "I like her but i don't know how to talk to her, what should i say?". all these questions are fine but the earlier ones that i told you, that was....wow! seriously, how fucked up are these people? it's like its all just about sex, sex, sex and more sex. no one wants a real relationship at all. if you listen to these people problems, you know in the end its all about sex. the husband was outstation and feels lonely, the wife was home alone for days and gets horny, while the guy was busy working, his fiancée got drunk and had a one night stand with a stranger and got herself pregnant, a girl who wants to "paused" her relationship with a guy so she can find the man of her sexual desire (she doesn't want to break with him because he gives her lots of attention and treats her real nice and she likes it), and so many more. does marriage means anything to you people? does having a gf/bf is too stressful? having only one partner is not satisfying enough for you? what happen to the marriage vows that they had when they were married? "for better or for worst". is that just an illusion? what is it about sex that drove these people to ruin their marriage, relationships? i know physical contact is important but relationship is not just all about sex. and i know many people would disagree with me, but i don't think its one of the important either.
because to fulfill you sexual desire, you resort to cheat which in the end ruined your marriages and relationships. did they ever think about the consequences? their spouses? their children? family reputation? look what happen to Tiger Woods? getting a divorce and now people will never remember him for his golf achievement but for his scandals with 120 women. Bill Clinton? people will not remember his achievements as the President, but forever talk about his scandal with Monica Lewinsky. Eliot Spitzer, he was the Governor of New York. he was known as a family man and look what happen to him? involve in high-prized prostitution service and costs him his good image and his post. John Edwards, the US presidential candidate 2009, had an affair with a woman and had a baby with her when he was married. so what happen to him? divorced, image is ruined and no one is going to remember him for his running the presidential election expect for his affairs.
when people are going to learn? cheat is never ever a good idea. i know sometimes people just keep throwing themselves in front of you but seriously, people, start thinking with your head not your dick/vagina. think of your family, your wife, your children, your pregnant girlfriend, your busy boyfriend who work his butt off so you can have whatever you want, your good image and so many more. when your in a relationship or married, you made a commitment not just to yourself but to your partner that you will always be true to them and that is what you should do. i know some people will argue that they are in a bad relationship/ marriage, if so, then get out from it! yes i know its easier said then done, but that is something you have to do. you cannot cheat behind his/her back just because you were treated badly physically and/or emotionally. that is morally wrong. you want a better relationship/marriage, go out and get it yourself. the longer you stay in that relationship/marriage, its not gonna go anywhere. it's your own life. grasp it. like i always say, i believe in karma. what goes around comes around. no matter what your excuses are, once you cheat, it will always come back at you. sooner or later, you, yourself will be cheated. and that time, you know how bad does it feel.
p/s: thinking with your dick/vagina will only get you in trouble. sure, you will have fun that time, lots of fun, but you're gonna be in big trouble later. karma baby, karma.
another p/s: if my bf cheats on me, i seriously will cut his dick off and throw it at the freeway. just like Lorena Bobbitt. Bwahahahaha.........
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